Manifestation and Mimosas

Episode 60: A Loving Farewell - Reflecting on Our Podcast Journey & the Most Important Takeaways to Help You Create a Life You Love.

September 10, 2023 Nicole Grove & Sophia Shaffer Season 2 Episode 60
Manifestation and Mimosas
Episode 60: A Loving Farewell - Reflecting on Our Podcast Journey & the Most Important Takeaways to Help You Create a Life You Love.
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This is it!!!  In our final episode, we're overcome with a blend of emotions - gratitude, nostalgia, and a sense of immense accomplishment. We can't help but look back at our favorite moments, filled with laughter and profound conversations, and feel proud of the intentional and powerful episodes we've produced. A journey that started with a mission to empower women to manifest the life of their dreams, turned into a beautiful journey of our own self discover and growth that we cherish immensely.

 Here's to new beginnings, abundant love, and goddess vibes for all of our sisters! Cheers to the wonderful possibilities that the future holds for us all.

Thank you for all of your support and for doing the work that your future self will be proud of. 

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Nicole & Sophia

Speaker 1:

Welcome to the show. Yeah, this is our final episode. Yeah, finale.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Super proud of us. That was the first thing like in reflecting on what I wanted to come to this episode with. Yeah, it's just like how proud I am of everything we did. Yeah, you know what I mean. Yeah, I'm sad.

Speaker 2:

Oh, I know it is sad but, you know, feels like it's the right time. Yeah, I am. There are a lot of other things in my life currently, all of a sudden, that are also coming to an end. Yes, and it just it feels right, but it it doesn't mean it's not hard to do. Yeah, it doesn't mean that it's Not important to do it just because it's hard, right, yeah, I'm feeling very like it's time to close the door and start a new chapter and it just feels like everything in my life that this has sort of happened all at once like, yeah, and I don't want to Because of the other things that are going on in my personal life.

Speaker 2:

I don't want to bring that then into every episode. It would just change the podcast, yeah, and I don't want to do that. And I'm very grateful Because I feel like In every episode I was talking to me. Yes, I was talking to, you know, the me that was coming, yeah, and the Whole point of the season for me was growth and I'm doing that and it's hurts a lot.

Speaker 2:

Yes, but damn it universe. I know, but also thank you, universe, because it's necessary and it's needed and it's gonna be great. Yeah, it's just really hard, right, this second.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, you know, yes, and that's the right time. Yeah, for us to, you know, reevaluate and Take a pause and enjoy, you know, being in your cocoon and you know the coming of fall and winter, and just you know, like you said in the last episode, you're gonna go through it, girl, and we've all, we've all, gone through something and what? If you are going through it right now, we feel for you as well.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, yeah, I certainly do sending you love and there are ways to get through it, and but we yeah, I've, I've had a good time recording with you.

Speaker 2:

I had a lot of fun and it's something I never thought I do. I'm really glad that I did it. You know, it's so funny. I was thinking about like the kids forever will be able to be, like Remember when mom did that podcast, so for like, listen back, I mean it's out there now forever. Yeah, when I'm 60 I can be like oh yeah, I'm like find it, I'm sure, in an archive somewhere. Yes, yeah, yeah it's a nice like a time capsule, like a virtual time capsule.

Speaker 1:

It is, and you know, checking in where you are in Years from now you know, I think that's, I think, exciting things are coming for you me personally.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, yeah, I think so too. I'm very um, I have to like kind of cross this pit first. It's sort of like this is gonna sound stupid, so prepare yourself. But it's sort of like so Jacob used to, I mean he still does. He loves Mario. There's when you're like in one of the games cause, you know, there's several or whatever.

Speaker 2:

There's one point where you get to the very end and you rescue Princess Peach and like, you get there and she's in this cage and you, I remember, all of a sudden, we were all together and we were like watching and he, like Mario, goes up and like rescues her and then the cage turns around and it was the guy like the Koopa, the big, like the evil gut.

Speaker 2:

Right, yeah, it was him. He was disguised as the Peach and you were like I thought I had it, I fucking had it, I was there, I made it and I had this one last like challenge. I feel like that's what I'm doing, yes, but you know he did it and defeated blah, blah, blah and like made it right, like I know, like I listen, I already said it was gonna be stupid, so I love it, but I feel like that's sort of where it's at. I'm at that last pitfall and going like okay, brace yourself, fucking get ready, but you can do it. You feel sometimes like you're not gonna make it, but you can do this, yes you can yeah, and yeah, I mean what a journey we had.

Speaker 2:

Yeah yeah, you know what were some of your favorite moments.

Speaker 1:

Gosh so many. I love our blooper reel. I love our blooper reel all the funny moment From day one, episode one, and then all the way to you know recently, but Romy and Tickly, I was watching that one the other day. Oh my God, yeah, that was a great one.

Speaker 2:

What the hell is Romy and Tickly.

Speaker 1:

Romy and Tickly, that's the next website.

Speaker 2:

We're starting. Oh my God. Yeah, the TikTok still sticks with me, because I do say it sometimes still, and I'm like what the fuck is wrong?

Speaker 1:

with me.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, why can I not? Just I don't know, it's pretty great.

Speaker 1:

So, yeah, all the bloopers and laughs, I think are my favorite parts, the one we had so much fun and good energy, for sure, for sure, yeah. And then just the variety of episodes we covered, like we set out on the intention of helping women manifest you know the life that they love and that their future self will be proud of.

Speaker 1:

And when I looked back and I've been reviewing some of the old episodes in preparation for this, and, by the way, our last season, the very last episode, which was a review of season one, is our number two episode now, by the way.

Speaker 2:

Oh, really yeah.

Speaker 1:

Which I think people like. The recap. Yeah, I think they like. They're like just give it all in one episode. What's the summary? Yeah, seriously, so, hopefully we do a little bit of that today. Yeah, so I think just all the variety of topics we covered. But we always stayed true to the point and the mission and I think we helped people, I know we did.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, for sure.

Speaker 1:

And favorite of all time I said it in the recap of the last one is the power of pink. There was a girl last week and I was like oh my God, I love your shoes. And she goes, oh, it's part of my power of pink. And she's like from your podcast. And I was like, oh my God, and I can't tell you how many women have that has stuck with them the most. Is that the power of pink episode.

Speaker 2:

It's brilliant.

Speaker 1:

And the. You know. I think it's just really powerful that when women discover the things that bring them joy and happiness and fulfillment and they bring them into their lives.

Speaker 2:

And it can be simple as that cute pair of shoes, the lipstick, the color pink whatever, yep, that little bit that brings you into the energy of that power that you're like oh yeah, I can do this. Yeah, yeah, I love that. I absolutely love it.

Speaker 1:

I know me too. What about you?

Speaker 2:

I feel like I learned a lot. I learned a lot about myself. I learned a lot about, like, how other people respond. I think to like I don't know, it just seemed like, you know, talking in my personal life about doing the podcast was like really fun kind of reactions from people just being able to say like oh, you know, we're doing this thing. Or like I really loved the interviews. Yes, I loved some of them more than others, of course. Yes, but I felt like expanding my horizon, expanding my view. I just feel so lucky to be able to have done that. I feel like it's just something that I'll cherish for a really, really long time. Also, same the goofball moments are like just my favorite thing.

Speaker 2:

They're my favorite thing ever and in my whole life, forever. I'm always valuing the goofballness of all of it, so that absolutely is top tier for me.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, that's what one of the main things in doing this was was to have fun and enjoy it. So I think we did that. I do too. Yes, and I was also thinking about this. I was going to do that recap of like what's the basics that you need, you know, as we leave you here, I just wanted to share a few of those key things, and I've been listening to a lot of Abraham Hicks lately, because let's not forget that that book Ask and is given.

Speaker 1:

Started it all and I will say, like you know, somebody very close to me in my life started reading it not too long ago, has been meditating every day and she is in awe of the magic. Yep, Bonuses galore, you know, just feeling good, loving her job Can't say enough about it and she is so thankful to have found it. So if you have not, in this entire time you've been listening to us, read that book, please. It will change your life. We're not kidding Like guaranteed Absolutely.

Speaker 2:

I 100% agree.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, absolutely, sometimes the changes are not fun.

Speaker 2:

Well, sure At first. Yeah, I mean they are necessary. Yes necessary, but fun is not the way that I would describe it. Yeah, I mean, maybe the changes you're going through are fun, and I do hope that for you, but if you're going through a change, that's not fun, I feel you you know, but yeah, the things that I think that I would want to say and the things that I will take is meditate, trust, believe period. Those are the things I love it.

Speaker 2:

Because if you really trust, you really believe. I mean, that's the core of it all, that's where it all starts and that's what I'm living in yes, Trust, believe and fucking meditating every day. Because, sometimes it's like a little too much. I'm like, okay, every time I catch myself like I have to take a deep breath or I'm having a heart palpitation or like I feel like things are spinning, I just stop. I have five minutes. Five minutes Breathe, meditate, ground yourself, center yourself. Then you can move on. It's powerful.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, it is. And Abraham Hicks like teaches it and so does Joe Dispenza, and Kyle and I actually have him. If you're a woman out there and you're into manifesting and your dude is like anti or just like doesn't get it, joe Dispenza is gonna solve the problem. Okay, because men love science, they love like understanding it in that way. And so Kyle and I, at night, we have been reading a book called I'm not gonna get it right, but it's Joe Dispenza's book about breaking the habit of being yourself. It basically teaches you how to rewire your brain in a very scientific but also spiritual way.

Speaker 1:

Like Joe Dispenza, he hosts these things where people who are blind seeing again, people who can't hear, hear again, like the craziest cancers healed. I mean, this guy has proof, you don't have to believe me. Go on his site. So between these two people, joe Dispenza and Abraham Hicks, I mean your life could do a major shift. And so me and Kyle are reading the book every night and it's helping like get us into that alignment. And Joe Dispenza also jokes about how you know at his retreats that he does all the women drag their husbands there for the same reason because they want you know they want, like they're partners to experience the same thing, but it's gonna take a little something different.

Speaker 2:

So, anyways, I highly suggest both Plus. I think you start making these shifts and these changes in your life and you know you're either making these vibrational shifts and these huge like quantum leaps, alone or together. And if you're doing it alone, you know the people that are in your life that are not participating in that. They will vibrate right out?

Speaker 1:

Yes, they will. They won't vibrate.

Speaker 2:

Yes, they will, Because if you're creating that life for you and the person that you're with is not sharing that, it's just not. You can't live that way forever.

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 2:

You can't.

Speaker 1:

You can't and that's why I also posted the other day. It's like about your friend circle and even your family circle. You know you want them to be based on your future, where you wanna go. You're most like the people you hang out with.

Speaker 2:

Yes.

Speaker 1:

If you wanna do something great, hang out with people who are doing things that are great.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

You know what I'm saying Absolutely Don't hang out with people based on your history and your past.

Speaker 2:

Yes, and I know it's hard with family, I get it Of course that's hard, but you can create boundaries like something.

Speaker 1:

this last two years, two seasons that you know creating boundaries- is so key, it's so important. And, like you said, you know who's meant to be there, will be there and the others will vibrate right out. That is the way it goes.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, plus, you know what's true for you. That's. It was something that I was really struggling with was like I knew it was true for me.

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 2:

And I wasn't choosing it. I was pretending and I thought, if I could pretend long enough it would turn out fine.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2:

That's not how it works.

Speaker 1:

No Aw I love you.

Speaker 2:

No, so this is such like a slop show.

Speaker 1:

I'm sorry, but I think so many people are gonna, I promise.

Speaker 2:

I'm getting you together.

Speaker 1:

So many people are gonna relate to it if you think back to any hard time you've had anyone's had in their life right. Like when it's the feeling of like this is so painful, how will I ever get through it? Yeah, you get through it yes. And somehow, on the other side, something magical, something more amazing is there for you. Yep it just. You have to go through a little bit of the pain to come out on the other side or a lot, or a lot. Yeah, a lot.

Speaker 2:

It might be a lot. It might be a lot, yeah, but people can see it. Yes, you know it. People around you can see it. Just because you're pretending like it's not there doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Yeah, you know. You gotta be true to you Exactly Like plain and simple, yeah.

Speaker 1:

So in that I just wanted to share a few of the things, like I said, the summary of, like, what I would share if somebody said give me the summary in a few minutes. Yeah, and you know. Again, just thinking about this last few days really deeply, I think number one learning that the universe will only give you what you feel worthy of receiving. Yes, and letting that really sink in. We talked so much about self-love and worthiness this year or last year. Yep, it's my self-love, you know. Do I feel worthy myself? And those are the questions and reflections that were super powerful in some of my favorite episodes were the self-love ones, yeah. So what do you feel worthy of? Yeah, and look at your world around you yeah, what's happening, and is that showing up because you haven't felt like that's your limit of worth? Yes, the people, the experiences. Yep, and that's a lot of work to do, like you know it's a lot of work to do.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, and what I mean? I 100%, absolutely agree.

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 2:

That what you think you are worthy of is what shows up. And it's oftentimes easier. And sometimes, you know, the last couple of days I've really flip-flopped a lot about you know if one minute I'm feeling super powerful, super capable, super great, and the next minute I'm feeling like crawling into a hole and never coming out and not talking to anyone for the rest of my life. Yeah, but I had this moment this morning, this feeling of like the easier choice is not the correct choice. The easier choice is not what's going to serve me best. The easier choice is not going to bring more value to my life. I have to make the hard choice because eventually that brings me in the most value and that's what I want. Yeah, it's what I want. I'm not stupid. I know what I want. I'm not confused, that's. I have clarity and I don't need to keep making it easier for everyone else.

Speaker 1:

Yes.

Speaker 2:

Please Stop that.

Speaker 1:

Do you know?

Speaker 2:

what I'm saying. Yeah, please stop that. Yes, I'm ready to fuck. It's hard, but it's got to be done. Yeah, it has to be done. Yeah, so excited to meet the future me.

Speaker 1:

Yes, Can't wait, I'm excited too. Can't wait, I'm excited too. I'm here for you now but I'm also really here for the future. You Bring it on girl. Number two is Like if you want to manifest, the main thing is your receptivity right. We just talked about your worth is also like calling in that receptiveness right.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Or receptivity is, if you focus like all the naysayers of manifestation well, I don't have it, so it can't be true. Yeah, oh, I don't, it didn't happen yet. The more you focus on the lack of having it, the more the universe brings that Like. You will get evidence. Yes, you will get evidence that you asked for through your receptivity. So if you're focusing on all the things you don't have, that ain't the way man, that ain't going to happen. That's the way to keep getting what you don't want.

Speaker 2:

Exactly. That's exactly the way to keep getting exactly the shitty thing that you in your life, that you don't want.

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 2:

I mean, yeah, it's one thing to say I really want this and I didn't get it, and it's another thing to say I believe I deserve this. I know that this is right for me. Yeah, because that shit will show up Once you really fully step in to, I believe, what is worthy for me. I know that this is what I want my life to look like. And you 100%. You can't have one foot out the door. No, once you 100% commit to like, this is the life that I want.

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 2:

That's when it happens, yeah.

Speaker 1:

That is Be open, be receptive, yep. Stop thinking about the things you don't have. Yep, start appreciating the things you do have.

Speaker 2:

Stop thinking about how it's so hard and it's not going to happen or whatever. Whatever, yeah.

Speaker 1:

And it's also that. It's that not. You do not have to control how it happens.

Speaker 2:

All you have to do is know what you want.

Speaker 1:

Yes, be in the energy of it.

Speaker 2:

Yes.

Speaker 1:

And let go of how it happens, because how it happens is it should be surprising, and both Abraham Hicks and Joe Dispensas teach this right.

Speaker 2:

It's like the unknown.

Speaker 1:

Yeah Right, if it's known, then it's yesterday's news.

Speaker 2:

Yes, it's old you Exactly.

Speaker 1:

It's unknown.

Speaker 2:

Let it happen. How it happens is none of my business.

Speaker 1:

Totally, and I kind of love that.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I don't need to be in control of that.

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 2:

It's not for me, yeah, it's just you know.

Speaker 1:

Just let it go. Just let it go. Number three really powerful thing for everyone to understand is that contrast helps us understand what we do want. And so this is hard to hear, because we're always like, when you're a manifest or you're trying to manifest, you're like why do these shitty things happen? It's how, in that moment, when these things happen and you're like man, I thought I was manifesting and the universe was good and this should happen, and it's like no, there's a reason. Everything around you is happening. And so, if you can accept that, find the better thought, find the better emotion, get yourself to a better place and just accept that.

Speaker 1:

The contrast is there to help you understand what you do want. Yes, like that's it. Yes, if those things didn't happen, you wouldn't understand that that's not what you want.

Speaker 2:

Right, right. Well, it's hard to believe sometimes when you don't get what you want, that, that thing that you thought you wanted, actually selling yourself short. Yes, that's not really what you want. Like it comes back to trust, yeah.

Speaker 1:

Trust and believe Trust. Exactly, he's all aligned to your yes, like your three things.

Speaker 2:

Yes, you have to just trust that you are going to manifest what's right for you. Yes, and so when something doesn't happen that you thought you really wanted, the quicker you're able to let that go and believe that the right thing is coming for you, the easier it is to move up that emotional ladder. Yeah, to go, like you know what I'm already feeling better because I really believe that, like if it were right for me, it'd be for me. Yeah, if it's, you know, if it were right for me, it would be here.

Speaker 1:

Exactly, it's not. It's not. And we challenge you, you know, in the future, anytime you get caught in one of those negative moments where you're experiencing something you don't like instead of being like, oh poor me, you know, victim mode, this and that go and we can't end the season without mentioning Chris and Fritz's name in an episode.

Speaker 1:

But what Chris and Fritz, you know, kind of said, it's like getting curious about it going huh, this is interesting, yeah, and really that curiosity turns the energy of it into a positive and like, wow, okay, like you know, I do this even when I'm driving and, you know, somebody pisses you off in traffic.

Speaker 1:

And you're like you're, like you start and you're like the fucking idiot. It's not to say I don't do that. I do it on probably almost every drive. But then I catch myself and I go. What if they're running late for an interview? Yeah. What if their kid is sick and they're trying to get to their school? Yeah. What if they have an emergency? What if they have to shut themselves Totally? Anybody who's in the car going like clenching. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2:

You're sweating.

Speaker 1:

Next time that person's pissing you off, just imagine them in your shoes, that one day that you were clenching and sweating, and it really gives you a place of compassion right. So it's finding that compassion and like that turn of the thought just gets you to a better place of like. Okay, they're not an idiot or a moron or a jerk. They got something going on. I'm just gonna let them go by. There's no competition here. I don't need to stay in their way. Nope, whatever.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

No road rage.

Speaker 2:

No road rage. I love that. Next time I see someone and I'm like these fucking morons.

Speaker 1:

I know it's the same. I do it all the time, all the time.

Speaker 2:

I'm gonna go. I've been there, been there, I've been there. I don't know if you're crying in your car, I don't know if you have to take a shit. I don't know what the problem is, but, girl, I've been there. Yes, I've been there. So please, no, go ahead. It's okay that you go right off Go ahead, not my problem, exactly Catch yourself. Go ahead.

Speaker 1:

It goes along with. Like you have no idea what somebody else is going through 100%.

Speaker 2:

Right that jerk at work 100%.

Speaker 1:

You know the person at the checkout stand. Just imagine that they might be going through a tough time and send them well wishes. I know it's hard to hear and I'm not perfect at it, but that's how you get to the better place.

Speaker 2:

Yeah.

Speaker 1:

Okay, yeah, so that's a big one, yes, and then this one is related, but it's the conversation around momentum, the energy that you're in and using that to help you get to the better place. And then the emotional scale and my favorite episode and I think you know a viral one we had was where we talked about how jealousy was a lower vibration than hatred and rage.

Speaker 2:

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Which like jealousy.

Speaker 1:

If you're in that energy, you need that episode. It is not your friend.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, okay.

Speaker 1:

It is at the bottom of the barrel. But the emotional scale and using your emotions as your compass, as you always say, and Abraham Hicks says, it's like you know knowing how you feel and how you're gonna get yourself to that better emotion. Yep, if you're just having the shittiest day in the world, getting in front, just turning that into a positive is impossible, like all of a sudden going everything's great and I love the world.

Speaker 2:

Oh God, yeah, no way.

Speaker 1:

That's not what manifestation's about. No, no, it's about what? Is this the next? What is the thing that you can do? To just turn that thought into one level up. Yes, just move one level up.

Speaker 2:

Yes, yes, 100%, 100%. Yeah, you can't lie yourself into the truth. Yeah, you can't lie yourself into the truth. It just doesn't work that way. Like this last week at work all week cause people I feel like Americans, right, not like I'm like well traveled, but I feel like. For some reason, we always have to say like, how are you Like when you answer a call? Are you see someone Like you?

Speaker 2:

get a fuck how I am Like come on you don't care, just ask me where you're gonna ask me. But it's happened 400 times and I decided to answer I'm surviving, I'm surviving. I'm not gonna say I'm good, how are you? Because that's a goddamn lie, that's fake. Yeah, I'm not good. Yeah, in that moment, if I'm good, I'll say, yeah, sure, I'm fine. But I had decided cause I was like what are you gonna say? Cause I'm not gonna just sit around and like, yeah, lie to everyone and myself. So you know, the point of that is like know where you're at, pick how to be honest, pick how to be authentic, pick how to answer. You know whatever it is that you know is coming your way, and just if you can just squeeze one drop more of joy.

Speaker 2:

One little drop, and maybe that drop is I'm being honest. I'm happy that I'm able to answer honestly. I don't need to get into it, don't need to talk to anybody about it, you know. But I'm being honest and I will start to feel better. You go next rung, next rung up, keep going up.

Speaker 1:

But don't, you cannot, like you know, abraham says get in front of that 70 mile an hour car Exactly, of your emotions Exactly, and to expect that, and that's why a lot of people give up.

Speaker 2:

Cause they're like oh, this shit doesn't work.

Speaker 1:

Like, nobody's asking you to be toxic positive, you know?

Speaker 2:

Nope, nobody's asking that of you, no, and please stop. Yeah, if you're doing that, please stop.

Speaker 1:

Please stop. Yeah, it's enough. Thank you, it is so. How can you get yourself to the next level? Use your momentum. Be aware of the momentum that it has. If you're in a really resistant state, how do you shift it? If you're in a really good state, if you're in flow and you're having a good time, use that time to create Use that time to you know, create with the universe to consciously like be manifesting the things you want when you get into that flow.

Speaker 2:

So Plus, it's so easy to say, wow, this shit works when you do receive something that you really wanted, and remember that when something doesn't happen or does happen, that you were like I didn't think I wanted this or whatever, instead of saying like this shit doesn't work, be like wow, this really works. This really is bringing me something new. This really is bringing me something that's none of my business. This is bringing me something that I had no idea I even deserved. Like you know, remember when it's good that it can feel that way.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, it doesn't you know, fucking break.

Speaker 1:

Exactly Two more, and this one is we kind of dabbled on. But take a chill pill, go with the flow, be the cork floating down the river. Yeah, we talked about this, you know, last season and I think even in that end episode. But if I am again recapping how you're creating your life, yeah, going with what feels easiest. Yes, we do this so often where we fight the current and you know that's like part of the thing, like in stopping the podcast if it's not feeling, you know, in a light, like in ease, and it's this, then it's done right. Like then we have to move on to a different zone.

Speaker 1:

So it's all good, Be willing to just go with the flow, go with ease. It doesn't mean, don't you know, be prepared or take action. That's not what I'm saying at all. But take action with ease.

Speaker 2:

You know, what it sort of is reminding me of is like I'm always manifesting more money for my life.

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 2:

It doesn't mean I'm not checking my bank account.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, it doesn't mean I'm not realistically going like I see how many dollars I have, I see my mortgage coming out, I see you know my car payment or whatever. I'm realistic in the numbers and the math, but I know that more is coming. Yes, just suit what I'm saying. Yeah, like that's. It's not just like I believe I have all the money in the world and I don't need to check my bank ever. Yeah, that's not it. Yeah, you can check your bank. No, stay aware, live. You know. Like, take a lined action to make sure that like your shit's lining up, but do believe that that's coming your way. Yeah, you know. Yes.

Speaker 1:

Be grateful for every little penny there.

Speaker 2:

Hell yes, hell yes, thank you. Thank you, bank, thank you, thank you, mortgage Payment for giving me a place to live. Thank you.

Speaker 1:

Yes, and the you know the equity you're gaining in that mortgage payment you're paying yourself. Yeah, that's the freaking magic of it. So going with the flow, being at ease, all that stuff. And then the final one is the one I've listened to our season one trailer of the whole podcast.

Speaker 2:

Again, just to like remember it. And it was called.

Speaker 1:

Enjoy the Journey. And so the final one really is enjoying the journey, and it's all about how are you like, what's the energy you're gonna bring along the way? It's not about just getting there.

Speaker 2:

Because every trip you take even the theoretical trips that you take in your life you are packing an extra bag of energy. Yes, the energy you're bringing is in its own little extra bag. What the fuck are you putting in that bag? What are you carrying around with you on vacation? What are you carrying around with you on the way to the airport? What are you carrying around with you the week before you know, when you're at work, like that is an extra bag that you pack. Yes, you're putting your energy in it. It's nobody else's, it's just for you. It's your own little personal item, your own little carry on. Yes, it's full of your energy and you're responsible for what you're putting in there.

Speaker 1:

Exactly, you know what vibe are you bringing to the?

Speaker 2:

vacay. What vibe are you bringing to the party, vibing?

Speaker 1:

to the party, Vibing to the party? Yes, that's it I mean. So enjoy your journey If you're going to spend years being miserable to get to that dream that you have right. Like let's say you know you want all the money and you want the big job and you're the career, the business or whatever you want. Yeah, and you spend 10 years in misery.

Speaker 2:

Was it worth it? Also, you're not going to get to happiness through misery. Happiness is not at the end of the misery road. I have such a hard time with that. It's like I believed it for so long.

Speaker 1:

I have to do it the hard way I know so many people do, because they get told that when they're kids Exactly, right, exactly right, it's going to be hard.

Speaker 2:

I have to go through misery, but at the end of it, maybe there'll be this happiness. No, because you haven't built happiness along the way. There's no proof of happiness. That's not what you're building. You're just building more misery. What are you doing every day? What are you doing and who are you? Where are you existing? What energy are you living in every day? Because you're just creating more of that. Yeah, that's what you're creating. That's what's at the end of that road Exactly Fuck and change the path.

Speaker 1:

Change the path, change your mindset, change your energy. You know, don't spend your life with this dream and then be miserable along the way.

Speaker 2:

Enjoy the journey.

Speaker 1:

Because you know what Some people don't make it to the end of the journey.

Speaker 2:

Right, so that's absolutely Enjoy.

Speaker 1:

You know how many people are like oh, I'm going to wait for retirement to travel and I appreciate that and it's a very much a boomer thing, right.

Speaker 2:

For sure.

Speaker 1:

Save it all to the end and then enjoy it. That's not, I think, where the younger generations are, and I think that's where they get a bad rap, but I also think it's like we want to enjoy the time we're here.

Speaker 2:

This is the life.

Speaker 1:

Because you may not get to retirement man, Like that could be the reality, Absolutely. So what are you doing?

Speaker 2:

Also, why should I not enjoy my life today.

Speaker 1:

Yes.

Speaker 2:

I'm not going to delay, joy, yes. Because I think I'll be able to enjoy it more when my body hurts more in another 30 years. Now, you know, give me a fucking break. Yeah, I got to enjoy today Because maybe that's it, maybe today's it.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, so check in with yourself. Are you enjoying your journey? Yeah, if you're not, it's time for a change. Yeah, absolutely, and all right. Well, any final words?

Speaker 2:

No, I mean, I just feel like anyone who ever got anything out of it. Yes, thank you. Yes, I love you girl, you know. Yes, yes and yeah, I absolutely loved this. Thank you for inviting me on it. Yeah, I mean, it was your idea, it was your baby and I'm just. I am so grateful to even be along for the ride, so it was fun.

Speaker 1:

It was fun. Yeah, we had a good time together, for sure. And you know what? We had lovers and we had haters. We didn't have any in betweeners, so we have lovers and haters, and that, to me, is success, absolutely so, yes, thank you to everyone who tuned in and listened, and we're just so grateful, yep 100. And sending you love and goddess vibes for your journey, I mean, and cheers forever.

Speaker 2:

Yes, cheers to you, cheers to us, cheers to the path that you're on and the future that holds. Yep Cheers.

Speaker 1:

Cheers Baby, cheers baby. Ok, bye, bye.

Reflections on the Final Episode
Navigating Changes, Trust, and Self-Worth
Manifestation
Finding Compassion and Enjoying the Journey
Enjoying the Journey